Curling etiquette is the term that describes the blend of rules and unwritten agreements that govern players’ actions on (and occasionally off) the ice, rules which emphasize the best of the game: sportsmanship, courtesy and respect for your opponent.

Oh sure, we all want to win.  But we’re also drawn to our curling club week after week for more than just those two hours spent on the ice. We come for the people, the socializing, and the exercise.

A curling game starts and ends with handshakes.  The most gracious winners – and losers – are the first to put out their hands to their opponents. We shake hands before and after the game, no matter whether it’s a friendly jitney, a playoff-deciding league match, or a weekend bonspiel.  It’s “Good curling!” and a firm handshake to start and end the game.

The rule book might state where you can stand when the other team is throwing and who’s allowed in the house when the score is being decided, but its curling etiquette that shapes the game. Standing still when the other team is throwing and allowing the vices to tally up the score without interference from the others shows the players’ respect for each other and their roles.

The Canadian Curling Association’s Etiquette and Rules says, in part, “I will play the game with a spirit of good sportsmanship.” And although it might be tempting to let the adrenalin flow in a tight game – yes, even if it’s just a Social Mixed League – the expectation is that we will refrain from throwing our arms in the air and cheering wildly when the opposing skip misses that crucial last rock draw to the four foot. It’s not just common courtesy – it’s simply curling etiquette.

“Sportsmanlike behaviour should be demonstrated both on and off the ice,” the CCA’s rules for Fair Play continue. “This includes modesty in victory and composure in defeat.”

The rules of curling can be found on the Canadian Curlers Association website here